Every one of us have at some point in life had to contend with this feeling of being rejected either at work or someone you had hoped to make yours, the worst thing is,one doesn’t have a way of explaining it or even understanding why someone just says i really love you but not in the way you would want me to, and all you wanna do is love them with all you’ve got.

At that particular moment,emotions start welling inside of you confusion being the first,hatred, anger desperation,feeling stupid ooh this is the worst of them all. Then you mind start creating all sort of reasons excuses but it still makes no sense and you just can’t get. why can’t that one person you care so much about love you.. what is it that the other person- often an imaginary person- whom you think they are in love with have that you don’t ? probably you are better than they are in terms of looks etc etc . but hey it’s not their fault neither is it yours, just to accept it and move on, easy to say you are thinking. So,how do you deal with the rejection, getting back at them” to make realize what they missed” maybe your first reaction this always backfires on you because they probably won’t care, you end up embarrassing yourself even more and may end up driving them further away from you and you don’t want that, do you ?

girl-947764__180However there is a way you can learn to live without that person and the pain caused by his rejection and it starts with you accepting that they don’t want you, and it’s okay. Do you remember that person said no to..? karma,karma, karma. Iy happens to everyone so if you sit there and hopes that he/she will come around, you may be in for an unplesant surprise.

Love is a bee it settles on those flowers that has nectar not just any flower,if it does linger around it will be just for a short while to check if that sweet stuff in there is enough for it if it’s not, it leaves to search for a better one or the one it likes better and no matter what you do it won’t come back..This pain that you are feeling right now is just like a wound freshly cut.. it is bleeding painful, so you need to clean it up bandage it,take some pills to ease the pain and after some time pain will have subsides in such a way that unless you disturb it you will hardly remember it -thank our forgetful nature- then a completely painless scar will be all that’s left of it and may eventually disappear, just take it as a lesson learnt. A broken heart hurts so much at first then with time it will heal and if not completely it will leave a scar that you can live with….what matters is that you accept that your heart is broken and almost immediately the healing process starts.The task however is keep the process going without relapsing.You can do it if you believe you will.

one thing though, most people mistake love for a heightened state of emotions is what you feel for that person really love, I have a friend of mine who always tells me come on T it is never that serious