We have all seen or have been in this relationship that look like it just can’t go bad the next thing you realize it has ended just like that! But what really happens? in most cases you will hear people say we were perfectly fine the last we met but now it’s over. The most likely explanation for this is that either or both of them slowly killed their relationship without suspecting it. here is what happens
When you get into a relationship most people forget to show appreciation for the little things and efforts their partners make , taking those thing for granted is going to adversely affect your relationship
The occasional lies that you think that won’t do no harm will surely do more harm than you think for example.you meet your ex on your way home and offer you a coffee at a local café went and took longer than you anticipated instead of telling the truth when your boyfriend asks say you lie later he learns about it, even though you meant no harm the fact that you lied is enough to plant a small bit of distrust. the next time you lie about something else thinking you will get away with it this little insignificant lies pile up and eventually become a bombshell which will eventually explode,meantime the trust has gradually declined..
communication comes in third without this you will not understand what your partner expects from you and neither will you be able to express yourself in a way that will be clear and understandable it is therefore important to enhance effective communication
Then comes the Nos which makes your partner feel you no longer care.Whenever your love makes request and you consistently say no, like going out once in a while or picking them up after work or bringing me this or that on your way home it makes them feel as if you no longer care or the fire you had at first is dying which leads to speculating which could be causing you to behave in such a manner this may also lead to “if he doesn’t care why should i and this is i danger in itself. It costs nothing to make a little sacrifices for the sake of your relationship
Attention and respect is another thing that women want even more than your money and appreciating recognising your man is all that he needs but if you are ”sidelining” him or making him feel a second priority to you be sure you are making the perfect ingredient for your relationship lethal injection.in addition to that, your spouse/lover comes before your friends
Lastly spend much of your time together do stuff you both like together it will strengthen your relationship and make you understand your partner better AND IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR a way to kill it do the exact opposite of the thing i have said