When i was growing up i was under so much pressure to be like everyone else, to behave ‘normally” like everyone was and not to go against my cultural beliefs but this made me feel alienated and intensified in me the realization of being ”abnormal” Mine is not to follow without questioning no sir!
i realized that culture made us subjects to policies made by others for us i hated subjection of any form. But most people adore being in cocoons not daring question the order of things around them.my life is not just about living it is also about questioning and scrutinizing anything and everything until it made enough sense to me. i want to be liberated i want to be free and be able to think for myself.i will disagree with social conventions and dispute traditional ideas for anything to be relevant.. atleast for me to accept anything it had to make sense .
One thing that stands out about this inborn in rebellion is my hatred for being employed.My mum, no in fact my whole family believes in go school get a good job after until today that seems to be their stand meanwhile I believed that i wasn’t born to work for anyone and that according to my family that is quite absurd i have even rejected jobs and that at some point made mummy not so happy she couldn’t see why i was not taking up the job it was ridiculous and i was being unreasonable. i don’t disagree with it so much though she had a point. If your mindset is just like mine don’t be afraid you will be more at peace if you learn to accept who you are. a person different from the rest.
Don’t get married because you feel others want you to, if are not into marriage live your life unmarried it’s okay. Don’t go searching for a girl because your friends think you need one don’t even try to prove them wrong be single as long as you want. it is okay!
How about that dress you saw with your girlfriend and she wants you to buy because she thinks you look good in it? don’t buy it’s okay How about the one you bought and are wondering what people will say about it? go on and put it on if they feel it too buggy or tight or it doesn’t look good on you.. make it none of your business you will be okay
don’t ever let any of your decisions be informed on the basis of some societal perception be yourself no matter what
Don’t feel the need to be somewhere just because others are there and don’t go buy anything just because everyone else around you has it,no. don’t let anyone situations and circumstances dictate the way you live your life coz in the end you will realize that life is so much happier by simply being yourself which means being different from everyone else and it is okay .Really it’s okay