it’s simply not worth living your life unhappily in the name of a relationship(s)! After dating a couple of guys before and getting disappointed each time, i decided to give myself a break see if i could find happiness in being single. I was so Tired of being in meaningless relationships that don’t go nowhere.. i wanted to live a life for myself and knew i had to a way to do it and when i finally got to it i cannot even say how much liberated i feel it’s actually lots of fun.
For instance think about not telling someone you plans and doing whatever you want with whoever you want without having to worry if your boyfriend or girlfriend will like? Those moments you feel so mad for having waited on someone just for them to come up with an excuse of i had to rush somewhere or i had to do this and tha that’s why i came late? it sucks i know and for those reasons i called it quits!
The logic behind every relationship is that you will be to spending a considerable amount of time if not the rest of your life together but often it doesn’t go that way there will be breakups having wasted alot of your precious time! on what? and a very sweet heartbreak as a topping !
The other thing that you should spare yourself from is the constant jealous that come with dating from either you or your partner. There is also the anxiety whenever you are not in good terms waiting for them to make the first move and call you and yo end up checking your phone the whole day hoping they will call and when you cant waiting any longer you call them making yourself seem weak and that lets your partner feel they are the ones calling shot and might end up being oppressive..
And why don’t you save some money for your retirement when you don’t get those calls asking for some money for shopping … you will realize that you can be free like a bird and happy like a king or queen by avoiding the stress that comes with dating