FORGET MY EX

108_1Moving on after a relationship could be one tough challenge. However this few tips could help you  forget the person you so want to leave behind  and carry on with your life

STEP 1  TAKE YOU TIME

It is natural to want to forget that person within an instant but you know that will not happen  so you all you need is to take your time to grieve  and let you thought of what was follow you will find after some time has passed those thoughts will gradually feel stupid and  irrelevant. Time changes anything and change is constant embrace it slowly

STEP 2 TALK TO SOMEONE

find a confidant,  a person you trust an pour your pain to them let them know how bad or sorrowful you are and how much you want to move on,  the reasons, you also  need to highlight the things you wished for but dint get them and the thing you hope  for in future  this will ease the burden and make you feel better

STEP 3  RESIST THE URGE TO CALL

the more  you get in touch with  you ex the more you are  unlikely to move on. delete his contacts unfriend him  and block all connection this will hurt in the short run but hey we are talking of the long run outcomes here so don’t worry about the first few days  and stop hoping you can fix it if you talked things over he dint want you so he/she broke up with you. nothing will change now.

STEP 5  LOVE YOURSELF

do not let your ex feel  you suffered after they walked away, appreciate your beautiful  you buy new clothes improve your outlook as it will help you boost you confident laugh if you cant invite friend to your house go, love yourself and you will find  you don’t have room to love them anymore

STEP 6  GO OUT

after you have taken your time and had enough grieving   rise up from the ashes and go out find new activities to keep you occupied.   remember that musical class you wanted to take up and that swimming the lesson? this is the perfect time to busy yourself

STEP 7  MEET  SOMEONE NEW

Going out will give you room to find some new friends whom might eventually get closer  be careful though that you don’t get into another relationship too soon  and finally you have the power to decide if you want that  to continue wallowing in sorrow for someone who probably living his life without you or not BUT if you want if your love back check out my next article on shifitblog.wordpress.com/how-to-bring-my-man-back

 

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